Ellen Fitzgerald née Vereker (1905-1986) native of Davidstown

For decades Danny Dowling (1927-2021) clipped and saved articles and obituaries of Glenmore people. One rather lengthy obituary found in Danny’s voluminous records was for Monsignor Paul Fitzgerald, a native of Knockbrack, Glenmore. The obituary was written by Bishop Laurence Forristal (1931-2018) a native of Thomastown who often visited Glenmore to visit the Forristal family grave in Kilivory. Bishop Forristal in addition to listing the positions and work performed by Monsignor Fitzgerald also provided a window into the daily lives of young priests in the mid-twentieth century. Bishop Forristal also recorded the touching fact that a bowl of clay from the Fitzgerald home in Knockbrack was among the symbols brought to the altar at the beginning of Monsignor Fitzgerald’s Requiem Mass.

Parents & Grandparents

Paul Fitzgerald (1938-2006) was the son of John Fitzgerald (1895-1970) and his wife, Ellen Vereker (c. 1905-1986) of Knockbrack, Glenmore. His parents were married at Glenmore on the 25^th of November 1936 by the bride’s uncle Canon Richard Vereker (1871-1955) the Parish Priest of St. Joseph’s of Heywood, in the Diocese of Salford (near Manchester, England).  The parents of the groom were Paul Fitzgerald and his wife, Johanna Freyne of Knockbrack, Glenmore. The parents of the bride were listed as John Vereker and his wife, Kate Delahunty of Davidstown, Glenmore.

[Update 14 May 2024] Thanks to Patty Brown who forwarded the information that John Fitzgerald was born on 18 November 1895 and his parents were married at Glenmore on 14 November 1883. His father Paul Fitzgerald (farmer) Knockbrack was the son of Michael Fitzgerald (deceased farmer). His mother, Johanna was the daughter of James Freyne (farmer) of Kilbride, Glenmore.

[Update 15 May 2024] A reader requested a family tree and we were able to go back another generation. Mons. Fitzgerald was related to several old Glenmore families stretching across Knockbrack, Rathinure, Davidstown, Aylwardstown and Kilbride.

Fitzgerald Siblings

In addition to Paul, there were four other children born to this union: (1) May Fitzgerald (married  Henry Shefflin, of Ballyhale; (2) Josephine Fitzgerald (married John Shea of Haggard, Glenmore); (3) Sean Fitzgerald and (4) Michael Fitzgerald. The two Fitzgerald brothers farmed the family farm in Knockbrack. Neither brother married.

Illness & Death

Monsignor Fitzgerald died on the 28th of December 2006. For the last few years of his life he fought cancer. He was buried on New Year’s Day at St. Mary’s New Cemetery, Thomastown following mass at the Church of the Assumption, Thomastown. Bishop Forristal was the principal celebrant (Kilkenny People, Friday 5 Jan. 2007, p. 6).

The Obituary

The Kilkenny People (Friday 19 Jan. 2007, p. 12) published the obituary written by Bishop Forristal along with a photo of Monsignor Fitzgerald. The obituary is below.

Paul Fitzgerald, Parish priest, Thomastown and vicar general of the Diocese of Ossory, died peacefully in St. Columba’s Hospital, Thomastown, on December 28. He was surrounded by his family and staff, who felt it an honour to be able to care for him in his final illness in the hospital where he had been chaplain for almost 20 years. Even though he was ill and quite weak, he insisted on being taken to the hospital chapel on Christmas Day to con-celebrate Mass and in the afternoon he made the short journey to his sister May’s home in Ballyhale where he spent a few hours with all the family. Deep down I’m sure he knew it was a farewell visit to those who meant so much to him.

Paul Fitzgerald was born on March 29, 1938 in Knockbrack, Glenmore. He was educated in Bigwood National School, De La Salle College, Waterford, and St. Kieran’s College where he was ordained on June 3, 1962. His first appointment was to the parish of Mooncoin (1962-1964). How often he spoke of his two years there and how happy he was.

At the request of Bishop Peter Birch, he undertook a two-year course in social administration in the University of Swansea. On his return to the diocese, he was appointed administrator of Ossory Social Services. Then a small fledgling organisation that would, under his leadership, and the enthusiastic commitment of the Sisters of Charity, Sisters of St. John of God, Social Workers and an army of volunteers, grew into a well organised programme of care for the poor and elderly that would in time have branches in several parishes throughout the diocese. Amond the kinds of services provided were meals-on-wheels for the elderly, home help services, care and counselling for families. The care of travelling people was a particular concern of Bishop Birch and soon the Social Services were providing preschool and play school activities for their children, organised in the main by volunteer teachers. So significant was the impact of the Ossory Social Services under his leadership that they were the subject of a number of television documentaries.

There were many other diocesan undertakings that Fr. Paul was involved with—social study weeks were held for several years, the foundation of Our Lady of Fair Love School, the SOS Workshops, the School of the Holy Spirit and the School of Social Education, the first of its kind in Ireland, for the training of people involved in residential child care in Ireland.

His work as administrator of the social services brought him into regular contact with officials from different government departments, among whom he was greatly respected and admired; this ensured that there was harmony between the statutory and voluntary organisations in the care of the poor, the aged and children with special needs.

Respect for the dignity of the person was central to all Fr. Paulie’s work: His life long friend Fr. Pat Duggan tells the following story: a down and out meets him at the door of the centre and asks, “Father will you give me a smoke?”  And Fr. Paul puts his hand in his pocket and takes out a new packet of cigarettes, peels off the wrapping and removes four cigarettes and puts them I his own pocket and hands the rest to the man, who seems very grateful for them. Twenty minutes later the man is back looking for money.

But Fr. Paul patiently and diplomatically encouraged him down the avenue from where he came, showing a lot more patience than he sometimes showed at golf or at a hurling match.

In 1979, he was appointed to the parish of St. Canice’s, first as curate and later as administrator. In addition to his many pastoral duties he continued to lecture in social studies in the seminary in St. Kieran’s College and was deeply involved in many diocesan projects including the development of Seville Lodge as a diocesan centre for adult education.

In 1987, he was appointed parish priest of Thomastown, an appointment he was to hold for almost twenty years. He was very happy there and gave of himself generously in the service of his people. I thought his good friend and parish worker, Tom Walsh, put it very well in his own tribute to him at the end of the funeral Mass. He said: Fr. Paulie was a serious priest and serious about his priesthood—so true that was. All of us, his brother priests knew that from working closely with him over the years. His fidelity to his priesthood and his sincerity abut priestly ministry was at the centre of his life.

Speaking during the homily when his body was brought to the church, Bishop Forristal spoke of his own indebtedness to him over the years. As his bishop, I too have suffered a great loss and will miss him. In addition to being a dedicated priest, he was a wise adviser, who was always available—always generous—with his time and words of wisdom. My Predecessor, Bishop Peter Birch recognised this from an early age. He entrusted the administration of the then young Ossory Social Services to the then very young, Fr. Paul Fitzgerald, even before he was thirty years of age. He made a great success of it. Also, Bishop Birch appointed him one of his advisers on the appointments of priests in the diocese—a very responsible and sensitive task. He continued in that role when I came along in 1981. From the very beginning—particularly later, when he became vicar general in 1989—he was always helpful ad available. It was as if he realized that he should share whatever gifts or talents God gave him for the good of others.

In writing his obituary I can’t but refer to the open house that the presbytery in St. Canice’s was during the years that he, Fr. Pat Duggan and the late Fr. Jerry Joyce were living there. They were always so welcoming to us who were either seminarians or newly ordained at the time. The Sunday night card school was particularly enjoyable especially when the game got interrupted with heated discussions on either sport or politics or some issue of the day. Sad to think of that group, three have died—all at relatively young age—Fr. Donal Kelly, Fr. Jerry Joyce, and now Fr. Paul Fitzgerald. In faith we can but put our trust in God and pray that he will take them into his eternal love.

Fr. Paul was laid to rest on January 1, Feast of Mary, Mother of God, to whom he had great devotion. A bowl of clay from his home in Knockbrack was among the symbols that were brought to the altar at the beginning of Mass. At the end of Life’s journey the seeds of faith and his priestly vocation were being celebrated and the life long gratitude that he felt towards his parents, Ellen and John, and the good Christian home which he and his sisters, May and Josephine, and his brothers, Sean and Michael had there was being remembered.

In life he sought neither office, titles nor recognition, and when they came to him, he remained unchanged; he was essentially a very decent, highly principled modest man who strove very sincerely to be a faithful servant of God and I believe that is how he would wish to be remembered. May he rest in peace.

Memorial Tree

Shortly after Monsignor Fitzgerald’s death, a memorial tree was planted for him in Thomastown following a memorial Mass at the Church of the Assumption, Thomastown, where he was parish priest for the previous 20 years. The mass was attended by his family, relatives and friends. A poem in memory of Monsignor Paul was composed by his close friend and schoolmate Joe Dunphy from Thomastown (Munster Express, Friday 9 February 2007, p. 28).

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Please see our post of 4 October 2020 regarding Fenian John Fitzgerald of Knockbrack, Glenmore.

The featured painting above is the Assumption of the Virgin Mary courtesy of the Spencer Collection, The New York Public Library. “Full-page miniature of the Assumption of the Virgin, with opening of text for vespers, initials, rubrics, flower design” New York Public Library Digital Collections. Accessed May 12, 2024. https://digitalcollections.nypl.org/items/510d47da-e952-a3d9-e040-e00a18064a99

Please send any corrections, additional information or a better photo of Monsignor Fitzgerald to glenmore.history@gmail.com.

Dr. Kathleen Moore Walsh